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Promises Reduce Your Future Choices

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since none else raises their hand, you say, “I’ll do it”.

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When you promise to do something, you make the present more easy-going.

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Our default response to any idea that comes up should be: “Interesting. Maybe some day.”

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very soft “no” that leaves all our options open

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give it space so we can learn whether it’s really important and what it might entail

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too early to say “yes” or “no” on first contact

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shouldn’t make a commitment that we don’t yet understand

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If we always say “yes” to incoming requests we’ll end up with a giant pile of work that only grows.

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I am a people pleaser, and I often say I’ll do something to get out of an unpleasant conversation or to make others happy

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end up moving an acquaintance or writing extra documentation at a time when I’d rather work on my latest project or go for a run.

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you can still do the task you didn’t promise and pleasantly surprise the person.

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