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habit number one be |
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proactive the number one thing you need |
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to focus on is to take action and be |
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responsible for your own life you need |
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to stop blaming circumstances for any |
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difficulties or failures that come along |
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if it rains the day you had planned a |
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picnic don’t let that get you down no no |
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you simply buy a big umbrella and head |
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out in the rain you have the power to |
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control your thoughts to learn from your |
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mistakes and to choose your own path |
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habit number two begin with the end in |
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mind to begin with the end in mind |
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requires a clear vision of where you |
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want to go you need to think about your |
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goals values and priorities in order to |
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do so Covey suggests that you write your |
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own personal mission statement his |
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suggested way to do this is to imagine |
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that you are attending your own funeral |
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and all your friends family and old |
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colleagues are there what would you like |
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them to say about you now that you are |
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gone and how do you need to live your |
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life to make that happen |
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it seems simple but writing a mission |
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statement is not something you do |
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overnight so take your time and don’t |
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rush |
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habit number three put first things |
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first this habit is all about priorities |
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you need to realize that it’s alright to |
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say no when necessary and spend your |
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time focusing on your highest priorities |
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and remember not to confuse most urgent |
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with most important focus on the most |
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important tasks first and keep going |
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until you reach the finish line or put |
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another way never be so busy driving |
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that you forget to put fuel in the car |
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habit number four think win-win two wins |
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make everyone better off this is true in |
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all aspects of life in friendships |
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marriages business and all other |
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relationships where you interact with |
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another person if one party loses they |
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walk away with bad feelings like defeat |
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or anger and in the long run this will |
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hurt the relationship highly effective |
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people become highly effective by |
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multiplying their allies not their enemies |
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habit number five seek first to |
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understand then to be understood many |
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people don’t listen with the intent to |
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understand but with a desire to respond |
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they are either already speaking or |
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preparing to speak this will often lead |
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to misunderstandings and |
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miscommunication so seek first to |
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understand then to be understood |
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yourself and remember to understand |
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someone you need to listen for more than |
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words if you truly want to understand |
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you have to also listen for feelings and deeper meaning |
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habit number six |
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synergize the whole is greater than the |
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sum of its parts synergy is the result |
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of applying all the previous habits it |
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is about teamwork open-mindedness and |
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the adventure of finding new solutions to old problems |
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habit number seven |
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sharpen the saw this habit is best |
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explained by this anecdote imagine you |
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were to meet a man in the woods working |
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to saw down a tree what are you doing |
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you ask |
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can’t you see I’m sawing down this tree |
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you look exhausted how long have you |
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been at it |
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over five hours and I’m beat this is |
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hard work |
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well why don’t you take a break for a |
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few minutes and sharpen the saw I am |
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sure it would go a lot faster I don’t |
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have time to sharpen the saw the man |
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says empathetically I’m too busy sawing |